Moonpie in the Sky!

So today was a WEIRD day. There was a lot good and a lot not-so-good. Clarity through contrast right? Well, it started out when I woke up. A and dad were having a nice conversation and I joined in. :) Then we wend to aunt Joyce's house to see the bitties. :) On the way over I just wanted to hold a's hand but she was not so inclined. :( I love me some chickens and especially baby chickens but she had already fed then so I only got so see them from afar... Came back to dad's and we had a nice breakfast :) then . . . . . . . . . . . . . . nothing... Anna fell asleep and dad started working on his computer :( so I got the kids ready to go and we went to the mall. It was busy because of the tax free weekend but we had a good time. ) The kids got new shoes and I got some new shorts which were both very much needed. :) We came home and had a great dinner :) then I felt very rushed :( to get out of the house again to go to the jazz festival. We thought it was going to be at a park so the kids could play :) and we could listen to music but when we got there, they had moved it to another place which turned out to be more like a club which was definitely NOT good for the kids. :( A and I loaded the kids back up and went in search of a park. We found one on the water and right as we got there, a huge boat was pulling out escorted but 2 tug boats. :) J was in heaven. It was hot but nothing too bad. After that we headed home. As we were walking back to the car I looked up and at the top of a big building I saw the "moonpie" sign. I assumed that it was their headquarters. Fro some reason it just made my day. I kept laughing in my head about "where's the RC plant?" "only in mobile". On the way home I decided I needed some ice cream because so we stopped. When we got home, the kids and I sat outside and ate ice cream and they rode their bikes. :) A when inside to??? :( After that, l was exhausted so she went to bed. :) We are supposed to have a radio show tonight but a has already mentioned canceling it so we shall see...

So today was a WEIRD day.

Not really sure what to do with it so the lesson that I re-learned today was "make your own happiness." If you want something, you gotta make it happen yourself. I don't like to say you can't rely on other people but why should you have too. Look in the direction that feels good to you because that is all you know, what feels good to you.

thanks for listening (/reading ;) )

steph

My Dear Sweet Puppy...

So today, my dear sweet puppy passed on. Well, he croaked. He lived with our family for about 8 years and he was the best dog ever. He came into our family quietly in that we were not looking for a dog and we didn't really want one either. A friend of ours found him and couldn't keep him. They said they were going to take him to the pound the next morning so we decided to take him home. He was a scrappy little thing with mange and he just looked scrappy... We decided to fix him up so we got him "fixed", treated his mange, and got his shots all while continuing to look for a good home. Well, by the time he started looking like a decent dog, we were hooked.

He fit so well with me and anna and he helped us through SO much. He saw us through an almost breakup, anna's mom dying and her following 2 year depression, the addition of our 2 wonderful children and several other furry friends passing. Anna loved his "goo-goo" eyes and Jaiden loved how he would chase a stick. I loved how he was just such a "go with the flow" kind of dog. He was just so laid back. He was just an easy dog to love.

Now that he's gone, I feel like I didn't appreciate him enough. I just took it for granted that he was going to be there. Sometimes I would even get mad at him when he wouldn't listen or he tried to get into the car when we couldn't take him. Now that he's gone, I can't help but saying, "I should have love him more." I know that he had a great life and the animals have a different view of death. I also know he is still around and will always be. Our home will be a lot quieter (if that is possible with 2 little kids) and I will probably still look for him everywhere but at the end of the day, there will still be another one tomorrow. Today my heart is sad and hopefully, tomorrow will be a little less sad until the day we are ready to welcome another furry friend into our home.

Good bye sweet boy. You have forever touched my life.

Ugh...

So I think this blog is more about me venting but here I go again. I'm usually VERY good at staying positive but I think that is also in part because I can acknowledge the negative then move on. This post is my attempt at acknowledging the negative, learning from it then... moving on. I really need to be working (which is one source for my dismay) but I really need to get this out too.

There seems to be SO MUCH bad going on right now. L is teething so she has been grumpy and crying and not sleeping for 4 days. I get so frustrated when I can't help her. It seems like I can't do anything to help her feel better. J is awesome and he has also started lying and being very demanding. I know that I can effect this but I'm just not sure how yet. I've been listening to "Nonviolent Communication" and I feel like there is an answer in there somewhere. Now, A. She is going through a major change which I totally support, really. And I'm getting worried about our finances. We just found out today that the business is getting audited. UGH! I really don't think it will be too bad but still. Then she comes home 30 mins late on my night. I know that sounds silly but Monday nights I am supposed to have class. It's a standing thing just about. Since I don't have a class which is another story, I decided to take the time (this time) to "work" on my business. Advertise the class, return emails, make connections, ect... And she was late. I had a meeting tonight that I told her about and still... My need for respect is not being met. I know that she is going through a lot and I am doing everything I can to support her and our family which also means I need some time for myself; away from her and the kids. So. The other part of that is I really want to help her through this. I want to sit down with her and talk it out which usually helps both of us but tonight, I just needed some space away from all of the stuff. Now, onto me. I'm frustrated and scared that I didn’t have anyone sign up for this series. I have 3 students for 2 future classes which is good so what can I do to get more students. I also don't have a doula client right now (except the one that is due in June) and I would really like 1per month. It would help with my skills (more practice), my connections, and my money situation which would all help my confidence level. I would almost rather have the doula clients right now and I do love teaching too. I also have the opportunity to teach at another location but I'm not sure where to go with it so for now, I'm going to continue down both roads to see where they lead. I know the obvious choice will show up very quickly. Ok, I feel better. I was recently talking to my mom about my eating. I realized that I eat because I really enjoy food. So I was looking to see where in my life I need more enjoyment that I'm not getting and overall, I am very happy with my live. Everyone has stuff that want better but who am I to complain (if you don't count the occasional ranting above :) ). Well, she brought up that eating is sometimes a control issue and ding, ding, ding, ding!!!!! I feel like I don’t have any control over my kids, my wife, my clients, my money. I just do the best with what comes at me. So, I eat. My new resolve it to channel that into me time. I'm going to eat what I really do enjoy including more fruit, and walk more. My motto lately has been "there just aren’t enough hours in the day" but I think I just need to be inspired to do it and look for creative solutions. Drop the things that don't feel good and do more of the things that do feel good. Does that mean I'm living in denial? O’well, Egypt is usually not a bad place to live.